Short Fiction #1 The Loss

“Who would do this to us?” wailed Betty.

“Any number of damn idiots!” retorted George.

“What can we do?”

“First; both of us are fine.”

“Yes… but…”

“And we still have each other.”

“I know that – but these despicable…”

“Never mind,” soothed George. “We’ll just have to buy another garden gnome.”

Notes:

  • All rights reserved.
  • Copyright Trevor W. Hampel 2006
  • First published in FreeXpreSsion magazine August 2001

Taking time to think

Rick on his blog Shards of Consciousness writes that we should take more time to think about what we read. With the masses of information available at the click of the mouse, there is so much to read that is so interesting. Rick, however, is suggesting that we are reading far more but digesting far less of what we read. We are forgetting to think about what we are reading.

Ouch – guilty as charged.

In fact, since starting blogging seriously in March of this year my reading of printed materials has plummeted to an all time low. I subscribe to about a dozen magazines which largely go unread and have a huge pile of “books I am going to read when I retire.” Well, since “retiring” from teaching 2 years ago the pile has probably doubled. As for thinking about what I read…. mmmm… time for a few changes me thinks.

To read Rick’s article click here. (Sorry – the link to Rick’s site not longer works.)

Updated November 2013.

Procrastination and the Writer/Blogger

Procrastination.

It’s not a four letter word – but it should be.

I actually spell the word procrastination like this: P L A N N I N G.

Sometimes I even spell it like this: R E S E A R C H.

Just Get it Done

Getting things done on time in the corporate world is essential – do it or you don’t have a job. Putting tasks off is a mine field of trouble in any occupation. But for writers and bloggers it can be disastrous. If you keep on putting tasks off you get nowhere. If you don’t post regularly no-one is going to come reading your blog and your income will dribble to nothing (if you are relying on income from your blog). For writers in the print world, if the manuscripts aren’t being finished, or submitted, they are not going to get published. Hence no income. Just get it done.

Bad habits – Good habits

The habit of procrastination is like any other habit: it can be broken. It can be changed and hopefully replaced by good habits. Here are some of my ways of overcoming procrastination:

  • I keep a graph of how many hours I spend writing each day – I have set a goal for each month and for the year.
  • I keep a chart showing how many words I write each day – again I have set a goal for each month and for the year.
  • I keep a schedule of blog postings I make – including ideas for those postings I plan to make in the future
  • I keep a list of stories and other manuscripts I have submitted to publishers
  • My wife acts like a “dripping tap” reminding me about submitting manuscripts (bless her – she doesn’t call it nagging).

Now – keeping all these lists and graphs and so on could be misconstrued as a very clever cover up for my procrastination. Guilty as charged. However, all this information does keep me on track. I’ve refined the process over the years so that it takes up very little time each day and the most important thing is that it keeps me accountable to myself. I can see instantly how I am going. If I haven’t made a posting on one of my blogs for a week – it shows a big blank. It acts as a motivation to get back on track. If I haven’t submitted a story or poem to a publisher for three weeks, I need to do something about it. Just get it done.

Related articles

Promoting your blog

Many bloggers are just happy to occassionally add new posts to their blog. Every couple of days, or perhaps once a week, they write another short blog on their chosen topic. They do nothing more to promote their blog. And then they wonder why no-one is reading their pearls of wisdom.

Sheila Coggins has written a short article listing her Top 10 Tips on Promoting Your Blog: How to Gain and Keep Blog Readers. She includes things like writing quality content, posting regularly and ping backs.

To read the whole article click here.

Getting a Life

I’ve recently read two great articles on the hectic, demanding life of bloggers and writers. The first was Maintaining a Blog/Life Balance written by Darren Rowse. The second was by Wendy Boswell and called How to get things done working inside and outside the home.The issue of scheduling came up in both articles. Finding a balance between writing or blogging and the rest of life is a delicate balancing act. Since starting to blog seriously in March I have found that the pressure to post has sometimes taken a little enjoyment out of the whole process. Yet the challenge is there and is, in itself, enjoyable. I have certainly done far more writing in the last four months than ever before. And that has to be good.
Some of my frustrations – in no particular order:

  • I have been trying to establish myself as a writer of children’s books for over 20 years while at the same time teaching full time (until 2 years ago).
  • I have been trying to get things done around the house – like basic maintenance – that has been neglected for far too many years.
  • The frustration of trying to write full time while ill over the last 2 years. I’m much better now but I sometimes feel I have to make up for lost time.
  • The demands of trying to get serious about blogging – which means less time for traditional print writing projects.
  • The concept of trying to enjoy ‘retirement’ from teaching. I seem busier than ever.
  • The demands of family and friends – often very relaxing and necessary but a distraction from writing.
  • The demands of the community and the various committees I sit on and community groups I am interested in supporting.

That’s enough whingeing.

What to do about it?

Darren’s article has some simple, basic, commonsense suggestions:

…over the last 12 months I’ve met a number of bloggers who have seriously worried me in terms of their blog obsession (”blogsession”).

Creating a healthy blog/life balance is important and for me includes:

  • having days off
  • taking longer vacations
  • having times during the day that are set aside for family
  • setting time aside for exercise
  • prioritizing time for face to face interactions with people
  • developing other hobbies
  • setting limits on how late you’ll stay up and when you’ll go to bed

Great ideas. I know one that has me particularly concerned: “settting aside time for exercise”. I had plenty of exercise last year training for my trek towards Everest in January (read my Travel Blog – click here). I was walking some 2 to 3 hours daily in preparation. On my return I lapsed into old habits and this year I’ve started putting on the weight I lost during my preparation and on the trek.

Health Issues

Add to the lack of exercise is the recent news from my doctor that I am diabetic. We’ve got a good handle on the diet side of things, but the regular exercise I need to lick now. It is too tempting to just stay inside on cold days like we’ve been having in recent weeks.

I think I’ll stop now and go outside and do some gardening.